先谋生,再谋爱什么意思？ 先谋生再谋爱什么意思
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谋生意思是解决吃和住的问题；有了吃和住，才可以谈恋爱。
这个意思就是你做人还没弄明白呢就别说是谈恋爱了，即使是恋爱那也会是一踏糊涂的爱。
先满足自己的物质生活条件，才能够去享受精神上的快乐。
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