云南女子离婚后“豁出去”带女儿找前夫,见面一幕为何会令众多网友泪目?
因为小女孩还很小,很久没见爸爸了,见到爸爸了,就特别激动。这让人很为小女孩心疼。大家都希望如果小女孩的父母还有感情的话,就复婚,让孩子拥有一个完整的家。
云南女子带女儿去昆明玩,没想到女儿触景生情,想立刻见到爸爸
7月16日,云南一女子带女儿去昆明旅游。在旅行途中,女儿突然触景生情,想要立刻见到已久别一段时间的爸爸。女子当时本来已和丈夫离婚,本是打算不再去见前夫的。而女子的旅行计划也是下一站准备带女儿到大理游玩,但看到女儿急切想要见爸爸的表现后,思前想后,最后决定多照顾女儿的感受,鼓起勇气,带孩子去贵州见爸爸。
女儿自从听说要去见爸爸,激动得在火车上都不敢入睡,生怕错过了火车站
当女子告诉女儿接下来就去贵州见女儿爸爸时,女儿蹦蹦跳跳地表示好高兴。于是,两人就坐上了去贵州的火车。女儿在车上一直扳手指数还有多少分钟可以见到爸爸。女子让女儿吃点水果补充营养,女儿也怕因为吃东西误了站。而其时,离到贵阳站还有好久。本来,女儿有些犯困,平时是会在坐火车的过程中睡一会的。但女儿又担心睡过了站,所以坚持不睡。
下了火车后,当女孩离爸爸越来越近时,女孩也越来越激动,越来越期待
推着行李箱走在火车站内的时候,女孩一直不住地四处张望爸爸是不是就在眼前了。当看到穿一身黑的爸爸后,女孩不住地唤“爸爸!爸爸!”只见女孩爸爸也是双手抱起了女儿,女儿也是亲热地抱住了爸爸的后颈,开心地和爸爸聊天。
网友们的祝愿
网友们看到这里,都为女孩和爸爸的久别重逢感到高兴。但同时,又不禁泪目,站在女孩的角度想,网友们说:“如果有可能的话,还是复婚吧!这样可以给孩子一个完整的家。”
我的看法
离婚和复婚都不是小事,要慎重对待。值得注意的是,女孩妈妈之前为什么决定离婚后就不再见前夫?我想,这更多的是因为两人之间曾经出现过不可调和的矛盾才导致的吧?当然也有可能是女孩妈妈在离婚后,还对前夫有情,只是不想重蹈覆辙,才克制自己不去见前夫。但是,我相信这位妈妈也是比较理性的一个人。她肯定会考虑女儿的感受,所以,如果不是有什么不可化解的矛盾,她是不会打算说不再见前夫的。
因此,是否要和前夫破镜重圆,是女孩妈妈个人的选择。他人不可干涉。当然,我们都希望女孩能在充满爱的环境里快快乐乐、健健康康地成长。
Introduction: after the divorce, the woman took her children to see her ex husband. Netizens have advised her to get back together. Let's have a look at what's going on.
Recently, something happened in Kunming, Yunnan Province, which made people talk about it. The single mother took her daughter on a trip to Kunming. Sitting on the bullet train during the trip, the child couldn't help missing her father. The mother felt very distressed at her daughter's performance like her father, which expressed that she was willing to take her daughter to her father.
The child was worried about missing the station on the bullet train for a long time and was full of expectation. No matter how the woman dissuaded her, she refused to close her eyes. Finally, I met my father at the station, and the father and daughter hugged each other, which made many netizens feel tearful.
Looking at the action of the woman in the picture taking her daughter to see her ex husband, netizens applauded and expressed their views: remarry!
"In fact, this behavior of a woman is just to let her children see their father they haven't seen for a long time. Although the relationship between adults has broken down, parents are equally important to children. I hope they don't deprive their children of the right to see their parents. They need the same care of their parents at a young age, otherwise it's easy to leave a shadow in their childhood."
"The mother's approach is correct. She does put the child first. Although it is difficult to reunite with her ex husband, she is at least willing to look for each other for the sake of the child's face."
"For the next happy life of their children, remarriage may have to make sacrifices for parents, but I still hope everything will become better."
Seeing this, Xiaobian believes that the broken children of a family are the biggest victims. As the crystallization of love, once parents divorce, they will lose the love of the other half, so parents had better consider their children's feelings when their feelings break down.
孩子见到爸爸之后,特别激动,双方都很想念彼此,让人很感动。
两个人一起坐上了去贵阳的车,得知妈妈要带着自己找爸爸以后,小女孩更是全程都高兴得睡不着觉,生怕错过站以后错过这次宝贵的机会。越是距离爸爸近,小女孩就越是激动,感觉眼睛里面的光芒折射出来的都是对爸爸的想念。在车站这名小女孩也终于见到了日思夜想的爸爸,爸爸也是亲热的一把把孩子抱在怀里,看得出双方都很想念彼此。
离婚对孩子的心理阴影是非常大,这个大家应该都有感触,毕竟自己身边离婚的应该还有很多,而且离婚对一个孩子的性格来讲,也会有影响,或许会让孩子的性格变得更加叛逆,更加的偏激,同时离婚也会容易使孩子缺乏安全感。
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