君子报仇，十年不晚 君子报仇十年不晚，是什么意思啊？有仇不报非君子又是什么意思啊...
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所以不能简单的只看字面的意思,而要理解这句话内在的含义...这句话的目的在于摆脱对方的纠缠和其制造的麻烦,而不在于日后的报复...而且可以作为作为忍的动力和理由...
也应把握好"君子报仇,十年不晚"的行为界限.
其一，目的应该是为了度过难关，克服别人给你制造的麻烦，以免影响你的正事；
其二，这种信念所针对的麻烦应是对抗性的矛盾和冲突，而不是对鸡毛蒜皮的事耿耿于怀；
其三，着眼于远大目标，致力于成就大事，而不能采取卑鄙的报复行为；
第四，这种信念的价值就在于以一时之忍换取一世的不受气。
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