在爱情里陷得太深怎么办、、 爱的太深，陷得太深，怎么办？痛苦
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其实，说句心里话，爱情这厮，其实并不是说你看透它就能轻易的放的下，我个人觉得其实我们应该多想想我们这一生，或许我们还有很多事情要做，并且楼主你还小，世界这么大，还有很多东西，熟悉的或者陌生的。并不说让你和他分手，只是觉得不能一切都以它为中心，多想想自己的以后，等你20岁，30岁之后的一切，都决定于你现在的态度。你懂得。。。。。缘分总会来 是你的终究会来 有的时候坚持王阳明的不动心 随意动心一切都乱了 爱情也是一样 遵循自己的 良知 问心无愧就行
不要想太多，与其受爱情的苦，在 积糖 上撩妹崽不好吗，都是开门见山，直接奔入主题的，靠谱。
要掩盖痕迹,唯有在痕迹之上修建另一个建筑;要赶走悲伤只有用快乐才行!你放开眼界,走出现在的圈子.让自己接受外面的世界.迅速的投入另一个世界.那样的话,很快你就会忘记曾经的伤!
何必活得那么纠结.. 是你的终究会是你的
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