我家女儿今年17岁了，最近很反常，和我说话，都不耐烦，经常不回家，不愿意接触自己的亲人， 我如何才能走出失恋的阴影
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不能以一种家长的高姿态去接触他们。
要和他们能玩儿到一起谈心交流喝酒。
请采纳感谢。
可能是有些叛逆吧，或者是不是家里有什么矛盾之类的，对家人有什么不满
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