和前女友复合了，我来到了她的城市工作，我都来了一个月了，她还以为我一直在家里或者深圳。我拍了个? 我为了和前女友复合我来到了她的城市工作。以前是我渣，让她多次...
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这有什么奇怪的呢！
再说明，你来到他的城市工作，你根本就没有告诉她一声，人家又不是神仙，你不说的话，你的女朋友怎么会知道呢？
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