一次聊天中，我让男朋友对我说永远只爱我一个人，我都说了，可他死活不说，谁能说说他为什么不说啊 男朋友发了个关于我的说说，但我发现了这条说说竟然设置了只对我...
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你的男友应该是比较稳重注重承诺的人，明明知道自己不会做到又何必说出口，这些空头支票说出来有什么意义呢？只是为了让你开心的话，还不如说是让他多关心多为你做点事情。他希望对你诚实这样的情况下 怎么可能会说的出口类= =人 都会害羞的嘛~~
可能是他不喜欢你吧，或者谦虚，胆子小，不敢说。
一、他并不爱你，至少并不是只爱你一个人；
二、他爱你，但是很理智，理智的男人往往不会给女人承诺。
也许是他太腼腆了吧
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