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During the past fifteen years a great deal of attention has been given to "letting it all hang out. " My impression is that this over-zealous devotion to speaking one' s mind has more often led to hurt feelings and ruined relationships than to great joy and fulfillment.
I think we generally agree that holding in real feelings and never expressing less-than-lovely thoughts about each other hardly lead to constructive communication. It' s a great relief to allow ourselves the luxury of admitting our human weaknesses and pursuing more honest relationships with others. But we need to strike a balance between telling it all and telling nothing.
Recently I received a letter from a mother who had been persuaded by her troubled twenty-five-year-old son to attend a weekend "truth" marathon with him. Under pressure from the group, her defenses collapsed and she heard herself telling her son for the first time that he had been an accident that she hadn' t been planning to have a child. He in turn told her that he couldn' t recall a single day in his childhood that he'd been happy.
"At that time," this woman wrote, "it seemed helpful. We cried and we made up; 1 thought telling the truth had been good for us. But the trouble is, it wash't the whole truth. By the time Tommy was born, I did want him, and at times he was happy. Ever since that day, we' ve both been disturbed by some terrible feelings we shared. "
I must admit we\u2019ve come to the conclusion that some things are better left unsaid. Honesty is a fine policy as long as we know what the truth really is \u2013 but most of the time we don\u2019t. It\u2019s a fine goal to encourage children to express their real feelings. And many marriages have been saved by an open confrontation of deep and painful misunderstandings. But we need a new sense of balance. Disclosure is not a panacea for every problem nor even an end in itself. It\u2019s useful and freeing under some circumstances and terribly hurtful and damaging under others.
It\u2019s a good idea, I think, to bite your tongue for ten or fifteen minutes before saying what\u2019s on your mind. Try to decide whether it\u2019s going to open up new and better avenues of communication or leave wounds that may never heal.
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我认为我们普遍认为,持有的真实感情,从不表达less-than-lovely思考彼此几乎导致建设性沟通。的松了一口气让自己奢侈的承认我们的人性的弱点,追求更诚实的与他人的关系。但是我们需要平衡告诉这一切,什么也没告诉。
最近我收到一封来自一位母亲说服了她陷入困境的25岁的儿子参加周末与他“真相”马拉松。在该集团的压力下,她的防御崩溃,她听到自己告诉她的儿子第一次他被意外,她没有被计划有一个孩子。他反过来告诉她,他不记得一天在他的童年,他一直快乐。
“那时候,”这个女人写道,“似乎有帮助。我们哭了,我们由;1认为说实话一直对我们有利的。但问题是,它洗不是全部的事实。汤米出生的时候,我确实希望他,有时他很高兴。自从那一天,我们都被一些可怕的感情我们分享。”
我必须承认我们已经得出结论,一些东西
