如果一个男人内向，温柔，老实，只知道与人为善,脾气总压抑在心里,那该怎么办？怎样变得狠一点或看上去 老实人与暴躁的人发飙，那个可怕？ 如果一个性格软弱的老实人发...
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你说的凶一点或者狠一点其实并不能帮你真正解决问题，这个世界上千千万万的人 有千千万万种性格构成，不用轻易否定自己，只要你内心觉得好就好。温柔老实这些都没问题，但是如果你长久积累负面情绪可能会对你的生活造成影响 ，甚至扭曲内心，所以关键是找到宣泄情绪的途径，运动排解、音乐排解、和朋友聊天都可以，而且要学会适度的拒绝别人 。建议你多看些社会心理学、处世哲学之类的书籍 ，可能会对你有帮助。
把你说的这些性格，自信的发挥到极致，都是无可挑剔的优点啊。为什么要改呢。你身边的人肯定对你都很好，变了的话，恐怕会失去很多。
没必要事事压抑,学着拒绝
兄弟别说，我就是这样的人，不过感觉没啥的，除非别人动了我心爱的东西或者伤害了我的家人这些我就会发火，而且打人。现在很好啊何必要变狠点，做个温柔体贴的好男人不好吗？
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