我是初二，我是一个比较内向的女生，我的父母吵架了闹离婚，我不想他们离婚，我该怎么办？？ 现实生活中，什么样的父母，最容易把孩子养成“仇人”？
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和父母认真谈一场，是不是真的到了无可挽回的地步，如果不是，就请他们冷静想一想你的未来，如果是，不如就放过彼此，这世界没有谁是离开谁就活不下去的。你要加油努力生活。让所有伤害你的人后悔。
那要看看他们还有没有感情。是否有误会。如果有，你就要在他俩之间调节。如果已经没有分开对谁都好
我有个认识的朋友几年前就吵着离婚他们的女儿为了他们不离婚就说“如果他们离婚就从楼上跳下去”父母没离婚但一直分居，其实何必呢这样的话全家都不开心，其实何必呢。我老公的哥哥23年前就离婚了为了孩子又复婚现在我那侄儿工作了两口子在家不打架就吵，我那侄儿就说要离就离其实我也赞成
骗他们，你离家出走。，
留下该留的信息，。
不然。，很严重哦
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