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\u4f60\u53bb\u8ba9\u4ed6\u548c\u4eba\u9645\u8001\u624b\u5b66\u5b66\uff0c\u8ba9\u522b\u4eba\u6559\u6559\u4ed6\u600e\u4e48\u505a\uff0c\u544a\u8bc9\u4ed6\u641e\u597d\u4eba\u9645\u5173\u7cfb\u7684\u91cd\u8981\u6027\uff0c\u8ba9\u4ed6\u548c\u4f60\u7684\u670b\u53cb\u591a\u4ea4\u6d41\uff0c\u591a\u4e92\u52a8\uff0c\u81ea\u7136\u800c\u7136\u7684\u5c31\u719f\u4e86\u3002
你可以说一家人更要孝敬您，就可以了，加油，祝你幸福！
如果你送钱给你丈母娘都拒绝的话，说你是一家人，他是客气话，你应该还是要给他。
如果是你到女家结婚落户口了，那么就自然而然的可以不送礼钱吧，因为你是在女家生活的就是一家人了哈，但是你为了孝敬父母，可以自己主动帮助丈母娘把喜事宴席的款付了啊！所以你可以回丈母娘谢谢您的关心，那么宴会的款我可以付好吧！
这种情况你一般就要跟他说，既然是一家人了，这个钱就当是我孝敬你们的了，因为你们养大女儿也不容易。我以后一定会好好的对待她。
那是你丈母娘客气，他说你们是一家人，不需要送钱的，你应该和他说，这是你们做小辈的孝敬长辈的，是应该的。
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