是不是一个人经历的多了，就会变的特别自卑？ 是什么原因会让一个人变得自卑？
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是不是一个人经历的多了，
就会变的特别自卑？
不都是，有的人是，
心里承受力比较差的人会的
有的人越挫越勇
自信或自卑，全在你自己
不是
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