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你的领导太好了，羡慕&嫉妒&恨啊
我觉得请不请都无所谓，记住他们的情分，以后总会有“投之以桃，报之以李”的机会。
那要看你们平时相处的怎么样；吃饭也是一种表达方式。可以再饭桌上玩笑开开；把想说的话说出来；
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