凡事有度,万事不可过.过则无益 是什么意思 人生有度，过则为灾，怎样把握好自己的人生呢？
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就是说要适度，凡事要有一个量，不多不少
一切事情都是有一定的度量的,不可过度,过了就没有什么好处了。
每件事都有个底线 这个底线不能跨过去 跨过去就会产生不好的影响
过犹不及就是这个道理，什么事情都要把握好一个度，掌握好平衡点
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