我的父亲很关心我的个人问题，执意要给我说媒
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如果事业有成,肯定缘分就不远.
小伙,我支持你,哪个姑娘找到你,是她的福气.也是你的福气.
这你都没有看出来？父母给你找媳妇是次要的，想你回家才是主要的。
那就先斩后奏
按照自己的路线走啊，你父母也是关心你吧~~
没事的,你来这里说是对的!我建议你买个IBM T60P 笔记本电脑,这样你就不会烦恼了..........
真崩溃，这年头真是啥人都有啊
你们兄弟有两个，家的意思肯定是无论如何也要留一个在家里，天下的父母都一样，不管儿子在干什么都想把他们留在自己的身边，就如楼上老兄所说，找媳妇是次要的，想你回家才是主要的．你还是多和父母沟通沟通，其实人老了在身边有个照顾的还是好点!!!
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