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\u5173\u4e8eHow do you understand friendship \u7684\u82f1\u8bed\u7d20\u6750I do not wish to treat friendships daintily, but with roughest courage. When they are real, they are not glass threads or frostwork, but the solidest thing we know. For now, after so many ages of experience, what do we know of nature, or of ourselves? Not one step has man taken toward the solution of the problem of his destiny. In one condemnation of folly stand the whole universe of men. But the sweet sincerity of joy and peace, which I draw from this alliance with my brother's soul, is the nut itself, whereof all nature and all thought is but the husk and shell. Happy is the house that shelters a friend! It might well be built, like a festal bower or arch, to entertain him a single day. Happier, if he know the solemnity of that relation, and honor its law! He who offers himself a candidate for that covenant comes up, like an Olympian, to the great games, where the first-born of the world are the competitors. He proposes himself for contests where Time, Want, Danger, are in the lists, and he alone is victor who has truth enough in his constitution to preserve the delicacy of his beauty from the wear and tear of all these. The gifts of fortune may be present or absent, but all the speed in that contest depends on intrinsic nobleness, and the contempt of trifles. There are two elements that go to the composition of friendship, each so sovereign that I can detect no superiority in either, no reason why either should be first named. One is Truth. A friend is a person with whom I may be sincere. Before him I may think aloud. I am arrived at last in the presence of a man so real and equal, that I may drop even those undermost garments of dissimulation, courtesy, and second thought, which men never put off, and may deal with him with the simplicity and wholeness with which one chemical atom meets another. Sincerity is the luxury allowed, like diadems and authority, only to the highest rank, that being permitted to speak truth, as having none above it to court or conform unto. Every man alone is sincere. At the entrance of a second person, hypocrisy begins. We parry and fend the approach of our fellow-man by compliments, by gossip, by amusements, by affairs. We cover up our thought from him under a hundred folds. I knew a man, who, under a certain religious frenzy, cast off this drapery, and, omitting all compliment and commonplace, spoke to the conscience of every person he encountered, and that with great insight and beauty. At first he was resisted, and all men agreed he was mad. But persisting, as indeed he could not help doing, for some time in this course, he attained to the advantage of bringing every man of his acquaintance into true relations with him. No man would think of speaking falsely with him, or of putting him off with any chat of markets or reading-rooms. But every man was constrained by so much sincerity to the like plaindealing, and what love of nature, what poetry, what symbol of truth he had, he did certainly show him. But to most of us society shows not its face and eye, but its side and its back. To stand in true relations with men in a false age is worth a fit of insanity, is it not? We can seldom go erect. Almost every man we meet requires some civility, ?requires to be humored; he has some fame, some talent, some whim of religion or philanthropy in his head that is not to be questioned, and which spoils all conversation with him. But a friend is a sane man who exercises not my ingenuity, but me. My friend gives me entertainment without requiring any stipulation on my part. A friend, therefore, is a sort of paradox in nature. I who alone am, I who see nothing in nature whose existence I can affirm with equal evidence to my own, behold now the semblance of my being, in all its height, variety, and curiosity, reiterated in a foreign form; so that a friend may well be reckoned the masterpiece of nature.
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Tell your kids that table manners are more than about proper eating, it's about being kind and considerate of others. (告诉孩子们，好的餐桌礼仪不只是乖乖的吃饭，还是对他人表示关心和尊重。) Also, tell them although you know that they are smart and nice, other people will judge them on how they appear. (同样的他人也会因为你的餐桌礼仪留下好印象。)
1. Electronic devices. Turn off or silence all electronic devices before entering the restaurant. If you forgot to turn off your cell phone, and it rings, immediately turn it off. Do not answer the call. (关毕手机或调至震动)
2. Napkin. Place the napkin on your lap after being seated. As needed, use it to gently wipe or dab your mouth. Before drinking from a glass, dab your mouth. During a restroom break, place the napkin to the left of the plate. At the end of the meal, the napkin is placed neatly to the right of the plate (not refolded, but not crumpled either). (餐巾放在腿上。)
3. Wait until everyone is served before eating. If you are a guest, wait for the host to begin. (等大家的菜都上齐后开动。)
4. Utensils. If unsure which utensil to use, remember "outside in." The outer most utensil is used first. Once used, the utensil does not go back on the table, but is placed on the plate. When finished, the knife and fork are place side by side (parallel) on the plate with handles at the 4 o'clock position. Soup spoons are placed on bowl's service plate when finished; teaspoons placed on the saucer. (正确的使用餐具)
5. Eat with a fork unless the food is meant to be eaten with fingers. Only babies eat with fingers. (不用手抓取食物， 不舔指头，舔餐具。)
6. Don't stuff your mouth full of food, it looks gross, and they could choke.
(不要太大口的吃东西， 把嘴巴塞满食物又难看又容易噎到。)
7. Bread or rolls: Place your bread and some butter on the bread plate. Break off a bite-size piece of bread before buttering. (面包剥开后，一小块一小块的食用。)
8. Chew with your mouth closed. No one wants to be grossed out seeing food being chewed up or hearing it being chomped on. This includes no talking with your mouth full. (不要边吃东西边说话，嘴里有东西时不说话。咀嚼时嘴巴要闭起来。)
9. Don't make any rude comments about any food being served. It will hurt someone's feelings. (不要随意批评食物。)
10. Always say thank you when served something. Shows appreciation. (当服务生帮你取餐或服务时要说 “请” 和“谢谢”。)
11. If the meal is not buffet style, then wait until everyone is served before eating. It shows consideration. (除了自助餐， 要等大家就坐后才开动。)
12. Sit up straight, do not hunch over your plate. (腰挺直， 坐正 ，不可趴在桌子上吃饭。盘子放正后才开始吃东西。)
13. Eat slowly, don't gobble up the food. Someone took a long time to prepare the food, enjoy it slowly. Slowly means to wait about 5 seconds after swallowing before getting another forkful. (细嚼慢咽。)
14. Don't reach over someone's plate for something, ask for the item to be passed to you. Shows consideration. (不要跨过他人的盘子取食。也不要一次取过量的食物。)
15. Always use a napkin to dab your mouth, which should be on your lap when not in use. Remember, dab your mouth only. Do not wipe your face or blow your nose with a napkin, both are gross. Excuse yourself from the table and go the restroom to do those things. (随时注意用餐巾擦嘴， 不可用餐巾擦鼻涕。)
16. Do not pick anything out of your teeth, it's gross. If it bothers you that bad, excuse yourself and go to the restroom to pick. (剔牙时要用手遮住或到洗手间再剔牙)
17. When eating at someone's home or a guest of someone at a restaurant, always thank the host and tell them how delicious it was, even if it wasn't. Again, someone took time, energy, and expense to prepare the food, show your appreciation. (对主人表示谢意。)
18. Hands. You can place your wrists or forearms on the table, or hands on your lap. (双臂不可靠在桌上 ，不要趴在桌上以口就碗。)
19. Legs. Keep legs next to your chair. Do not stretch legs out or cross your legs as they may bump others under the table. (脚不可在桌下伸直或翘脚或抖脚影响他人。)
20. Relax, dine slowly, and enjoy the meal and your company. （放松心情， 慢慢享受食物和共进餐点的时光。）
General Behavior (用餐时，也不可以……)
Do not talk at an excessively loud volume. (大声说话)
Refrain from coughing, sneezing or blowing nose at the table. (大声咳嗽打喷涕)
Never tilt back your chair while at the table, or at any other time. (将椅子后脚翘起来或摇晃)
Do not make unbecoming noises while eating. (吃饭发出声音)
Do not play with food or table utensils. (玩弄食物和餐具)
Do not single out or chastise someone who has shown poor table manners. (对他人不礼貌的行为露出看不起的眼神)
Do not put your elbows on the table or slouch. (把双臂放在桌上)
Always ask the host or hostess to be excused before leaving the table. (需先离开桌前，问主人我可以先离开吗？)
Do not stare at anyone while he or she is eating. (盯著人家吃东西)
Never talk on your phone at table. If urgent, ask host or hostess to be excused, and go outside. Apologize when returned. （如需要离开桌子打手机 先和主人说一声）
Top 12 Rude Dining Behaviors 十二种最不礼貌的餐桌行为
1. Talking on Cell Phones 接听手机
Cell phones should be turned off or on vibrate or silence during a meal. Never answer the call unless it is an emergency. If expecting an emergency call, then let your table party know so that when you receive it, you can excuse yourself from the table and talk outside.
2. Chewing With Your Mouth Open 吃东西时嘴巴不闭拢
The mouth should be closed when chewing. ABC (already been chewed) is not an appetizing sight.
3. Talking With Mouth Full 边吃边说话 边吃打闹嬉戏
When the mouth is full of food, wait to speak until you have swallowed the food. Again, it is not appetizing to see food and when talking with food in the mouth, some could accidentally get spit onto your guests.
4. Blowing Nose at the Dinner Table 擤鼻涕 摸头发 摸脸 摸鼻子 东摸摸西摸摸
It is very offensive and unsanitary to blow one's nose at the table. Excuse yourself and go to the restroom.
5. Being Rude to Wait Staff 对服务生态度无礼
Being rude or impolite to the wait staff is unacceptable. If you do not like your food or wine, let the wait staff know politely and they will get you a replacement. However, if you have finished your meal or wine, then you should not expect a replacement meal or drink.
6. Picking Your Teeth 剔牙
It is inconsiderate to use a toothpick, fingers, or utensils to pick at your teeth at the dinner table. If food is stuck in your teeth, then excuse yourself and go to the restroom.
7. Burping 打嗝
Sometimes burping may be unavoidable, but try to suppress it using your napkin.
8. Flatulence 放屁
Sometimes passing gas may be unavoidable, but try to suppress it. Squeeze the anal sphincter hard until the urge goes away.
9. Licking Fingers 舔指头 玩弄食物 玩弄餐具 (敲打杯子, 碗盘)
If your fingers happen to get food on them, use your napkin to wipe them clean. Or, excuse yourself, and use the restroom to wash hands.
10. Grooming or Touching Up Make Up 补装或整理头发
Although commonly seen in restaurants, the place to primp is in the restroom.
11. Over Indulging the Alcohol 饮酒或汽水过量
It is uncouth to drink too much. It is also unhealthy to have too much alcohol and unsafe to drive. Even if you have a designated driver, alcohol tends to unleash obnoxious behavior.
12. Not Leaving a Tip 不给小费
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Prepared by Gulu Gulu Pung Pung (Sami Kuo)
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