一个女孩说她有私心，也是利用了我对她的好。她接受我的付出，却从不考虑我，对这应该怎么办？ 女孩对男孩说：“我有私心”这是什么意思啊？
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既然你已经知道了，
那就看你自己怎么想了。
如果就愿意这样做，
那就继续对她好；
如果知道真相了很不舒服，
那就让彼此成为路人吧！
一个女孩子坦白的跟你说他有私心，之前的一些事情上面他利用了你达到了他的目的，他接受了你的付出，但是他从没有认真的付出过感情，他从来没有考虑过你的感受，只是想着他的利益，像这样的人是不适合做男女朋友的，所以你要考虑清楚，以后跟他在一起，是否能得到幸福？
既然她能跟你坦白，
说明这个女孩本质并不坏，
只是不喜欢你，
这种就看你自己如何取舍了，
如果能接受她不喜欢你，
那你可以继续为她付出，
如果不能接受，
那就放弃她，
重新开始。
对于这样的女生我只能说她在利用你，她践踏你对她的好，再她看来，你对她好是应该的，是不求回报的！只能说她很自私，她不值得你这样对她
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