做人一定要忍吗？ 人为什么要忍
\u4e3a\u4ec0\u4e48\u505a\u4eba\u8981\u5fcd\u54a7\u505a\u4eba\u5c31\u5fc5\u987b\u5fcd\uff01\u662f\u7684\uff0c\u505a\u4eba\u5c31\u5f97\u5fcd\uff0c\u8fd9\u4e5f\u662f\u4e0a\u5e1d\u5bf9\u4f60\u7684\u4e00\u79cd\u8003\u9a8c\u3002\u201c\u5fcd\u201d\u8fd9\u79cd\u54c1\u8d28\uff0c\u91cd\u8981\u6027\u4e0d\u4e9a\u4e8e\u201c\u6055\u201d\u3002\u8f7b\u6d6e\u66b4\u8e81\u6c89\u4e0d\u4f4f\u6c14\u7684\u4eba\uff0c\u662f\u4e0d\u53ef\u80fd\u6210\u529f\u7684\uff1b\u6709\u53e5\u8bdd\u8bf4\u201c\u5927\u6c14\u8005\u5927\u5fd7\uff0c\u5927\u5fd7\u8005\u5927\u5668\u201d\uff0c\u73b0\u5728\u7684\u793e\u4f1a\uff0c\u60f3\u8981\u751f\u5b58\u4e0b\u53bb\uff0c\u4e5f\u5fc5\u987b\u505a\u5230\u4ee5\u4e0a\u7684\u4e00\u70b9\u3002\u5f3a\u6743\u7684\u793e\u4f1a\uff0c\u9669\u6076\u7684\u4eba\u5fc3\uff0c\u4e0d\u516c\u7684\u4e16\u9053\uff0c\u4e00\u5207\u7684\u4e00\u5207\uff0c\u4f60\u90fd\u65e0\u6cd5\u6539\u53d8\uff0c\u4f46\u662f\uff0c\u4f60\u53ef\u4ee5\u6539\u53d8\u81ea\u5df1\uff1b\u6240\u8c13\u7684\u201c\u9002\u8005\u751f\u5b58\u201d\uff0c\u6b63\u662f\u5982\u6b64\u3002\u4e0a\u5e1d\u662f\u516c\u5e73\u7684\uff0c\u7ed9\u6bcf\u4e00\u4e2a\u4eba\u7684\u8d77\u70b9\u90fd\u662f\u4e00\u6837\u9ad8\u7684\uff0c\u5982\u679c\u4f60\u60f3\u6bd4\u522b\u4eba\u9ad8\u4e00\u5c42\uff0c\u5c31\u5fc5\u987b\u6bd4\u522b\u4eba\u82b1\u66f4\u591a\u7684\u7cbe\u529b\u3001\u65f6\u95f4\u3001\u751a\u81f3\u91d1\u94b1\u3002\u505a\u4eba\u5c31\u5fc5\u987b\u5fcd\uff01\u4e00\u8981\u5fcd\u82e6\uff0c\u4e8c\u8981\u5fcd\u6b3a\uff0c\u4e09\u8981\u5fcd\u4e16\u3002\u5fcd\u82e6\uff0c\u81ea\u7136\u662f\u6307\u8981\u5403\u82e6\u8010\u52b3\uff0c\u80fd\u5fcd\u53d7\u6bd4\u5e38\u4eba\u591a\u5f97\u591a\u7684\u82e6\uff0c\u751a\u81f3\u611f\u60c5\u4e0a\u7684\u75db\u82e6\uff1b\u5fcd\u6b3a\uff0c\u5c31\u662f\u8981\u50cf\u97e9\u4fe1\u5fcd\u80ef\u4e0b\u4e4b\u8fb1\u4e00\u6837\uff0c\u5f53\u81ea\u5df1\u6ca1\u6709\u522b\u4eba\u51fa\u8272\u65f6\uff0c\u4e0d\u80fd\u53d7\u4ed6\u4eba\u6311\u8845\uff0c\u628a\u81ea\u5df1\u7684\u524d\u7a0b\u6bc1\u5728\u81ea\u5df1\u624b\u91cc\uff0c\u4e13\u5fc3\u5730\u628a\u81ea\u5df1\u73b0\u5728\u8be5\u505a\u7684\u4e8b\u60c5\u505a\u597d\uff0c\u8fd9\u624d\u662f\u771f\u7684\uff1b\u5fcd\u4e16\uff0c\u5c31\u662f\u8981\u5fcd\u53d7\u793e\u4f1a\u7684\u4e0d\u516c\uff0c\u662f\u7684\uff0c\u4f18\u80dc\u52a3\u6c70\u4ece\u751f\u547d\u5f00\u59cb\u7684\u90a3\u4e00\u523b\u65f6\u5c31\u5df2\u7ecf\u662f\u8fd9\u4e2a\u673a\u4f1a\u53ea\u6709\u4e00\u6b21\u7684\u6e38\u620f\u4e2d\u6811\u7acb\u8d77\u4e86\u8fd9\u6837\u4e00\u5757\u8b66\u724c\uff0c\u6240\u4ee5\uff0c\u4f60\u6ca1\u5fc5\u8981\u57cb\u6028\u4e16\u9053\uff0c\u51c6\u786e\u7684\u8bf4\uff0c\u4f60\u6839\u672c\u6ca1\u6709\u8fd9\u4e2a\u8d44\u683c\uff0c\u4e3a\u4ec0\u4e48\uff0c\u56e0\u4e3a\u522b\u4eba\u548c\u4f60\u6709\u4e00\u6837\u7684\u5f00\u59cb\uff0c\u4f46\u4e3a\u4f55\u4f60\u5931\u8d25\u4e86\u800c\u522b\u4eba\u5374\u6210\u529f\u4e86\uff1f\u5f88\u663e\u7136\uff0c\u95ee\u9898\u51fa\u5728\u4f60\u81ea\u5df1\u8eab\u4e0a\uff0c\u8bf4\u96be\u542c\u70b9\uff0c\u5c31\u662f\u4f60\u6d3b\u8be5\uff01\u6240\u4ee5\u8bf4\uff0c\u505a\u4eba\u5c31\u5fc5\u987b\u5fcd\uff0c\u5373\u4f7f\u4f60\u662f\u4ebf\u4e07\u5bcc\u7fc1\u7684\u5b50\u5973\uff0c\u4f60\u4e5f\u5f97\u5fcd\uff0c\u4e0d\u5fcd\uff0c\u90a3\u4f60\u5c31\u65e0\u6cd5\u6210\u529f\uff0c\u4e0d\u662f\u5417\uff1f\u554a\uff01\u505a\u4eba\u5c31\u5fc5\u987b\u5fcd\uff01
\u524d\u4e24\u5929\u6709\u4e2a\u670b\u53cb\u7ed9\u6211\u7559\u8a00\u8bf4\uff1a\u5fc3\u6001\u5e73\u548c\u7684\u4eba\uff0c\u5fc5\u5b9a\u53d7\u4eba\u6b3a\u8d1f\u3002 \u8fd9\u53e5\u8bdd\u8ba9\u6211\u60f3\u4e86\u597d\u4e45\uff0c\u6211\u89c9\u5f97\u6211\u4eec\u65e0\u6cd5\u5de6\u53f3\u522b\u4eba\u7684\u8a00\u884c\uff0c\u4f46\u4e00\u4e2a\u5fc3\u6001\u53d8\u5f97\u5e73\u548c\uff0c\u4ece\u800c\u4f7f\u5fc3\u80f8\u53d8\u5f97\u5bbd\u5e7f\u7684\u4eba\uff0c\u76ee\u5149\u4f1a\u770b\u7684\u957f\u8fdc\u3002\u53ef\u80fd\u522b\u4eba\u773c\u91cc\u770b\u5230\u7684\u662f\u6b3a\u8d1f\uff0c\u4ed6\u81ea\u5df1\u5374\u80fd\u4e0d\u5f53\u56de\u4e8b\u3002\u4e5f\u5c31\u662f\u80fd\u5fcd\u3002
要么狠，要么忍，要么滚
忍只是更好的背后捅刀子
伤及尊严，不忍。
要么狠，要么忍，要么滚
绛旓細褰撲綘鐙犲績鐨勬椂鍊欙紝涔熻鍒汉鎵嶇湡姝ｇ殑寮濮嬪浣犲埉鐩浉鐪嬶紝涓嶇劧锛屽埆浜鸿繕浠ヤ负浣犲ソ娆鸿礋浜嗐備汉娲荤潃锛屽氨鏄瀵硅嚜宸卞ソ锛蹇鏃犲彲蹇嶇殑鏃跺欙紝涓轰粈涔堥潪瑕侀肩潃鑷繁鐨勫繊璁╁憿锛熶竴鍛崇殑鍘诲蹇嶏紝閭ｅ氨鐪熺殑鏄牏浜嗐傝浣忥紝蹇嶈锛屼篃鏄鏈涓瀹鐨勯檺搴︾殑锛屼竴娆★紝蹇嶄簡锛屼袱娆★紝涔熷繊浜嗭紝鍐嶆鍙戠敓鐨勬椂鍊欙紝灏辨病蹇呰鍐嶅繊浜嗭紝浜嬩笉杩...
绛旓細鍦ㄧ敓娲讳腑锛屾垜浠粡甯稿惉鍒拌繖鏍风殑鏁欏锛鍋氫汉锛岃鏈夎愬績銆傚彜浜烘浘璇达紝鑻ヤ笉鑳藉繊锛屽繀瀹氬ぇ璁°傚畠杩樺憡璇夋垜浠紝瑕佹垚灏变紵澶х殑浜嬩笟锛蹇呴』瀛︿細蹇嶈愩傝瘹鐒讹紝鐢熸椿涓殑蹇嶈呮棤澶勪笉鍦紝浜嬫儏寰堝锛屽繊涓鏃讹紝鍐烽潤涓嬫潵锛岄涓姝ワ紝鍙浣犺兘蹇嶏紝浣犲氨鏄渶缁堢殑璧㈠銆備絾涓鍒囬兘涓嶆槸缁濆鐨勶紝鍏蜂綋闂闇瑕佸叿浣撳垎鏋愩傛湁浜涗簨鎯呬綘闇瑕佸繊...
绛旓細鍏跺疄鐜板疄鐢熸椿涓繖绉嶅埌搴曢渶涓嶉渶瑕佺殑浜嬫儏寰堝锛屼絾鏄竴涓囦釜浜虹湅鍝堝闆风壒灏辨湁涓涓囦釜鍝堝闆风壒锛屽湪绾风箒鐨勭ぞ浼氫腑寰堥毦鏈変汉浼氱粰浣犱竴涓緢鏄庣‘鐨勬柟绋嬪紡绛旀锛屾垜涔熸槸涓涓竴鐩村緲寰婄殑闇涓闇瑕佸繊寰楄竟缂樼殑浜猴紝涓嶈繃浠ユ垜涓汉鐨勪竴浜涚粡楠屾潵鐪嬪叾瀹炴湁鏃跺欎竴浜涜瘽璇村嚭鏉ョ湡鐨勬槸杩樹笉濡傛唻鍦ㄥ績閲岋紝鍥犱负鐭涚浘涓鏃︽槑鏈楀寲浜嗭紝浼ゅ彛鏃跺緢闅...
绛旓細鍑′簨閮借兘蹇嶅彈鐨勪汉锛岀湅璧锋潵鏄滃偦涔庝箮鈥濓紝瀹為檯涓婃槸鈥滃厖婊℃櫤鎱х殑浜衡濓紝鏄唴蹇冭冻澶熷己澶э紝鏄憜鑴变簡鎵鏈夌殑纾曠缁婄粖锛屾唻涓鍙ｆ皵锛屾妸浜虹敓鎺ㄥ悜鏇磋繙鏇撮珮銆備负浠涔堢埍鎯瑕佸繊锛屽緢澶氬か濡诲氨鏄洜涓衡滀竴瑷涓嶅悎鈥濓紝缁撴灉闂瑰埌绂诲鐨勫鍦般傚緢澶氭亱鐖辩殑鐢峰コ锛屽洜涓哄惖鍑犲彞锛屽氨鍒嗘墜浜嗐傝繕鏈夌殑瀹跺涵锛岃皝閮戒笉鑳藉蹇嶈皝锛屽氨鈥滄按鐏笉瀹...
绛旓細涓闇瑕銆傛垜璁や负浣犳病蹇呰甯偦灞呬竴璧锋壂銆傚湪鐜板疄涓栫晫涓紝杩樻槸瑕佺幇瀹炵偣濂姐傛湁鏃朵綘鐨勫ソ蹇冿紝鍙嶈屼細鎴愪负楹荤儲銆
绛旓細杩欎釜瑕佺湅閬囧埌鐨勬槸浠涔堜簨鎯呬簡锛屽鏋滄槸涓浜涙棤鍏崇揣瑕佺殑浜嬫儏锛屾垨鑰呭鑷繁娌℃湁褰卞搷鐨勪簨鎯咃紝寰楄繃涓旇繃锛屾瘯绔熷嚭闂ㄥ湪澶栬浠ュ拰涓鸿吹鍢涳紝浣嗘槸濡傛灉閬囧埌鎹熷鑷繁鍒╃泭鎴栬呮墦鐮磋嚜宸卞師鍒欑殑浜嬫儏灏变笉鑳戒竴鏄х殑闅愬繊锛岃鏁簬閫傛椂鐨勫仛鍑哄弽鎶
绛旓細鍋氫汉澶勪笘瑕佸繊锛屼絾蹇嶈瑕佹湁搴︼紝涓鍛冲繊姘斿悶澹帮紝閫嗘潵椤哄彈锛屾槸鑳嗗皬鎬嚘鐨勮〃鐜般傚湪鍘熷垯闂鍜屽ぇ鏄ぇ闈為潰鍓嶄笖涓嶅彲缂╂墜缂╄剼銆傝鏈夋墍蹇嶏紝鏈夋墍涓嶅繊銆傛礇鍏嬫槸鍥藉鍥句功棣嗙殑鑱屽憳锛岀敱浜庤嚜宸辨槸浠庡姞宸炲簲鑱樻潵鐨勶紝鍦ㄥ伐浣滀腑浠栧澶勫皬蹇冦佷簨浜嬭皑鎱庛傚姣忎綅鍚屼簨閮芥瘯鎭瘯鏁紝鍋跺皵涓庡悓浜嬪彂鐢熺偣灏忔懇鎿︼紝浠栦粠涓嶆嵁鐞嗗姏浜夛紝鎬...
绛旓細褰撶劧涔熷彲浠ヤ笉蹇 姣斿鏈変簺璇濆彲浠ヤ笉璇达紝浣犲嵈璇翠簡锛岃鍒汉浜х敓鐭椂闂存垨鑰呴暱鏃堕棿鐨勬劋鎬掞紝骞朵娇涔嬭浜嗘垨鑰呭仛浜嗕綘鏇村姞鎵垮彈涓嶄簡鐨勮瘽鎴栬呬簨鎯咃紝浣犲浣曞簲瀵癸紝褰撶劧涔熶細鏈夊埆浜轰笉鍦ㄦ剰浣犵殑璇存硶鍜屽仛娉曪紝閭ｅ氨鏄埆浜虹殑蹇冭兏锛屾兜鍏绘垨鑰呭煄搴滃ソ浜
绛旓細鍋氫汉锛蹇涓鏃朵箣姘旓紝鍏嶇櫨鏃ヤ箣蹇э紝浣庡ご鏄櫤鎱э紝鎶ご鏄媷姘斻傚仛浜嬶紝璁╀竴姝ヤ箣璺紝澶╁鍦板浜哄績瀹斤紝浠ラ涓鸿繘锛屾捣闃斿ぉ绌恒備汉蹇冿紝瀛樺杽鎰忎箣蹇碉紝鎱堟偛涔嬪績浜烘澶╀笉娆猴紝绉绉痉甯稿父鍦ㄣ傚繊锛屼笉鏄嚘寮憋紝鑰屾槸澶ф櫤鎱э紱璁╋紝涓嶆槸鑳嗗皬锛岃屾槸涓嶅睉鍘讳簤锛涘杽锛屼笉鏄牏绗紝鑰屾槸鑹績浣跨劧銆傚仛浜嬪繊涓蹇嶏紝蹇嶅瓧澶翠笂涓鎶婂垁锛...
