怎样交朋友
交朋友是一个积极主动的过程，以下是一些建议：1. 打破冰：勇敢地主动向人打招呼，并开始一个简单的交流。可以通过问候、介绍自己或提出共同话题来建立联系。
2. 参加兴趣小组或活动：加入你感兴趣的小组、俱乐部、社团或活动，与共同爱好的人结识。这样你就能有更多的机会与他们建立深入的联系。
3. 主动参与社交活动：参加聚会、派对、社交活动或志愿服务等场合，在那里你有机会与多样的人群交流。
4. 保持开放和友善的态度：保持开放的心态，对待他人友善。尊重和欣赏他人的差异，并表达自己的诚意和兴趣。
5. 培养良好的交流技巧：学习有效的沟通技巧，如倾听他人、积极回应和表达自己的观点。注意非语言交流，如眼神接触和肢体语言。
6. 提供帮助和支持：与他人建立深入的联系，通过给予帮助、支持和关心的方式展示你的友情。
7. 维持联系和投资时间：交朋友需要时间和投资。保持联系，主动邀请对方一起参加活动或聚会，建立更牢固的友谊。
重要的是要保持积极和开放的心态，并主动迈出第一步。不要害怕面对新的社交环境，相信自己的个性和价值，在适当的时机和地点展示出真实的自我。记住，真正的友谊需要时间和努力的共同建立。
Friendship
Making friends is a skill like many other skills.It improves with practice.If you want to meet people and make friends,you must be willing to take some actions.You must first go where there are people.You won’t make friends staying home alone.Join a club or a group.Taking with those who like the same things as you do is much easier.Or join someone in some activities.Many people are nervous when talking to new people.After all meeting strangers means facing the unknown.And it’s human nature to feel a bit uncomfortable about the unknown.Most of our fears about dealing with new people come from doubts about ourselves.We imagine other people are judging us of finding us too tall or to short,too this or too that.But don’t forget that they must be feeling the same way.Try to accept yourself as you are and try to put the other person at ease.You’ll both feel more comfortable.
Try to be self-comfident even if you don’t feel that way.When you enter a room full of strangers,such as a new classroom,walk tall and straight,look directly at other people and smile.
If you see someone you like to speak to,say something .don’t wait for the other person to start a conversation.
Just meeting someone new does not mean that you will make friends with that person-friendship is based on mutual liking and “give and take”.It takes time and effort to develop
翻译：
友谊
交友是一种技巧像许多其他方面的技能.它可以改善与实践相结合.如果你想遇到一些人,结交朋友,你必须愿意采取行动.你必须先去那里人.你不会让朋友独自留在家里.加入一个社团或一组.带着那些喜欢你做同样的事情变得容易得多.或者一起在一些活动.许多人都紧张和陌生人说话.毕竟结识陌生人意味着面对未知的领域.和人类的自然感觉有点不舒服的未知.我们的恐惧大部分关于面对新的来怀疑自己.我们想象的是判断我们其他人找到我们太高或短,太这太那个了.但别忘了,他们必须感受到同样的方式.尝试接受原原本本的你,并试著把对方轻松自在.你们两个都会感到更舒服.
要self-comfident即使你不这么认为.当你进入一个满屋子的陌生人,比如一个新教室,走挺拔,直接看着别人和微笑.
如果你看到你喜欢的人说话,说几句.不要等到别人搭话.
刚遇见一个新的人之前并不意味着你会结交person-friendship,是建立在互相喜欢和“给予和索取”.花时间和精力去培养
There are several important elements necessary to maintain a good friendship 要想维持友谊以下几方面是必不可少的了
Listen 善于倾听
The ability to really listen to another is a cornerstone of good friendship.It helps you to understand your friend and his/her feelings,as well as shows that you really care.倾听是友谊的基石 他有助于你更好的了解你的朋友同时又表示你在关心你的朋友
2.Spend quality time with your friend 与朋友相聚
No relationship can be satisfying without quality time spend together.Make time for your friend,schedule get togethers.没相聚就没友谊 所以抽点时间与朋友一起聚聚吧
3.Be forgiving 宽容
There is not even one person in the world who is perfect.You know your own shortcomings,so don't expect perfection from others.I'm not saying that you should always accept a wrong doing on your friend's part.Tell them when you didn't like something and be always ready to make up afterward.Don't hold grudges in your heart.It will help your friend to be long-suffering with you as well.人无完人,任何人都有自己的缺点所以就不要要求别人完美 我并不是叫你一味的纵容朋友的错误 相反你应该明确的告诉你的朋友 不要藏在心底 这对你和你们自己的友谊都是有好处的
4.Admit your faults 勇于承认自己的错误
In every friendship there will be conflict sooner or later.When it comes,often the wrong is on both sides Admit your wrongs instead of just pointing out the wrongs of another person involved.This will help you both to keep the line of communication open and strengthen your friendship
朋友相处迟早都会产生冲突的,但产生误会和冲突时双方都是有责任的 我认为勇于承认自己的过错比追究责任更有助于解决问题和增进友谊
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