请问是亲不间疏还是疏不间亲，出自何典故 “亲不间疏，先不僭后”的具体意思是什么？
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shū bù jiàn qīn成语：疏不间亲
【解释】：间：离间。关系疏远者不参与关系亲近者的事。
【出处】：《管子·五辅》：“夫然，则不下倍（背叛）上，臣不杀君，贱不逾贵，少不凌长，远不间亲，新不间旧，小不加大，淫不破义。凡此八者，礼之经也。”
【示例】：～，还是莫说罢。 ◎明·冯梦龙《警世通言》卷三十二
【语法】：主谓式；作谓语、分句；指关系疏远者不参与关系亲近者之间的事
【亲不隔疏，后不僭先】
原为"疏不间亲"。即关系较远的不参与关系较近的人的事情。此处 "亲不隔疏"是套用。隔：间隔，阻隔。僭：越分，指超越身份，冒用在上者的职权行事。全意是：亲近的人不能被疏远的人间隔，后来的人不能超越先来的人。
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