为什么中国的女人会嫁给她不爱的男人？
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这个就是中国女人的弊病了。 因为习惯,因为传统 爱情不都是这样嘛，往往在一起的都不最爱的，把最爱的人放在心底很好啊，因为要知道得到就是失去的开始 妥协得成了习惯了
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