家里办丧事后为什么三年内不能办红事 刚办完白事要3年后才能办红事吗？着急结婚
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咱们国家或地方传统，三年是守孝期。不能红事白事一起办吧，不能一边哭一边笑不吧。按照中国传统的孝道，父母死了，子女要给父母守孝三年，以报父母的养育之恩。儒家的实际守孝时间为27个月
你查查看守孝两字
人家都说守孝三年，这里也是对死者一种怀念
这是对死者的尊重
守孝意思为尽孝心
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