相亲定下来的亲事，聊了三四个月了前面还好，后来找过一次，回来后就像和陌生人一样 婚姻情感方面
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从陌生到熟悉，从熟悉到陌生。人与人之间分别的太久，环境变化都会让人变化。既然已经定亲，不妨多在一起，日久生情。
你们的相处这段时间发生了不愉快吗，或是相处下来感觉你们之间不太和的来吧。
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