岳父叫我去他家过年，我年夜饭只能在自家吃，我该怎么跟他说这个事情，咋办呢，初四去岳父家买什么礼物， 在交际礼仪中，什么是3A法则？什么是白金法则？生活中的你在人...
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其实每个人春节都想在自己家吃年夜饭，如果你不能去可以告诉他初几去就是了，或者是今年在自家明年去他家，一年一循环，说清楚情况相信你岳父也是明事理的人，不会责怪你，不要勉强自己否则年夜饭都吃得不开心了按情况决定啊！如果你家这边兄弟姐妺较多，有人陪你父母吃年夜饭而你老婆娘家兄弟姐妹少没有人陪吃年的话就不应该不去。过年嘛老一辈就是图个热闹。如果你有什么想法不去也可以直接跟你他说的。没什么的。坦诚点相处起来容易点。
不去干啥那么贱呢？给家过年陪自己父母。等你初四去的时候给她买点保健品。
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