双语｜并不是结了婚就要把幸福交给对方，谁又能让谁怎么幸福呢
有些东西，并不是越浓越好，要恰到好处。深深的话我们浅浅地说，长长的路我们慢慢地走。——毕淑敏《恰到好处的幸福》Things are not always the more the better, but should be just appropriate. For affectionate words we say it slightly. For the long road, we walk slowly.
并不是结了婚就要把幸福交给对方，谁又能让谁怎么幸福呢？在这个时代，让自己幸福就已经够难了，互相不给对方添麻烦，这就很好了。——韩剧《今生是第一次》
Marriage does not mean your happiness thus has been handed over to your companion.No one can really make another one happy.In this era, it's hard enough to make yourself happy .Not giving each other trouble is thoughtful.
研究人员说，如果想让某个人爱上你，你必须一开始就让对方相信，爱上你是一件合算的事。——《如何让你爱的人爱上你》
Researchers say that if you want someone to fall in love with you, you must convince them from the beginning that falling in love with you is worthwhile.
那些你装作满不在乎的事，其实大部分就是你无能为力的事。Most of the things you pretend you don't care are the things you are helpless.
《分手信》
离开我就别安慰我，要知道每一次缝补也会遭遇穿刺的痛。
If you leave me, please don't comfort me because each sewing has to meet stinging pain.
10. 西雅图夜未眠
(Sleepless in Seattle)
I love and am used to keeping a distance with those changed things.Only in this way can I know what will not be abandoned by time. For example, when you love someone, changes are all around. Then I step backward and watching it silently, then I see the true feelings.
我喜欢并习惯了对变化的东西保持着距离，这样才会知道什么是最不会被时间抛弃的准则。比如爱一个人，充满变数，我于是后退一步，静静的看着，直到看见真诚的感情。
《荆棘鸟》
But we, when we put the thorns in our breasts, we know. We understand. And still we do it. Still we do it.
但是，把荆棘刺入胸膛的那一刻，我们是知道的，明明白白。然而，我们依然要这么做，把荆棘刺入胸膛，彻彻底底。
《野棕榈》
She was gone, and I lost about half memory of her. If one day I was gone, all the memory of her would gone with me. Yes, he think: if I have to choose one from sorrow and nothing, I will choose sorrow.
她不在了，一半的记忆也已不存在；如果我不在了，那么所有的记忆也将不在了。是的，他想：在悲伤与虚无之间我选择悲伤。
I offer myself to you again with a heart
even more your own than
when you alomost broke it,
eight years and a half ago.
我再次把自己的心交给你
比八年半前
你让它几乎破碎的那刻
还要丰满
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