娶亲的旧时娶亲

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Woke up this morning,
Just sat in my bed,
8 a.m first thing in my head,
Is a certain someone,
Who's always on my mind,
He treats me like a lady in everyway,
He smiles and warms me through up the day,
Should I tell him I love you,
Wish I knew what to say!
Could this be love that I feel,
So strong, so deep and so real,
If I lost you would I ever heal,
Could this be love that I feel?
Could this be love that I feel,
So strong, so deep and so real,
If I lost you would I ever heal,
Could this be love that I feel?
The way he looks,
So deep in my eyes,
Our hearts are so warm,
I just wanna cry,
Then he's so hardworking,
He wants to be someone.
Should I tell him that I love you,
What if he doesn't say it too,
I'm getting so nervous,
What should I do
Could this be love that I feel,
So strong, so deep and so real,
If I lost you would I ever heal,
Could this be love that I feel?
Could this be love that I feel,
So strong, so deep and so real,
If I lost you would I ever heal,
Could this be love that I feel?
Will it be my turn,
Two hearts beating together as one,
No more loneliness,
Only love, laughter and fun
Could this be love that I feel,
So strong, so deep and so real,
If I lost you, would I ever heal,
Could this be love that I feel?
Could this be love that I feel,
So strong, so deep and so real,
If I lost you would I ever heal,
Could this be love that I feel?
Could this be love that I feel?...

大娶
“大娶”,男家备官轿、花轿两乘,吹鼓手、彩旗前引迎娶。新郎换上新装,多是身穿长袍马褂,头戴瓜皮帽或大礼帽,胸佩大红花,乘官轿在先。另一乘花轿为新娘备用,去时由幼童或新郎之弟或妹乘坐,名曰“压轿”,轿门上要贴写有“吉星高照”的红符。“大娶”一般白天进行,只有少数阔少结婚采用。
小娶
“小娶”,男家只发花轿一乘和灯笼火把到女家迎亲,多为平民百姓结婚采用。淄川的“小娶”多在夜间进行,博山则均在夜间进行。
新婚第二天
新婚第二天,新郎新娘上坟祭祖,博山、桓台多在第三天祭祖,谓之“上喜坟”。三日这天,博山的新娘还要送婆婆一条新裤,有“待要富,三日给婆婆做条裤”的谚语。 夜间娶亲
关于夜间娶亲,有这样一个传说:旧时,博山有一个恶霸翟三胡,是一个色魔,不论谁家娶亲,他都享受初夜权,百姓为逃脱这一厄运,便在夜间偷偷将新娘娶回家。相沿成俗,直至今日。不论大娶、小娶,男方到女家迎亲必须带皮袄、红毡,否则女家不发人。至女家,行“求婚礼”,新娘头蒙红纱,由父辈或兄长抱入轿内,亦有用椅抬入轿内,意思是脚不沾娘家的土。并有兄弟或近亲的两人相送,名曰“送客”。临淄还有“押轿”的习惯,有小辈二人提水壶扶轿杆跟在两旁。
“抢亲”
旧时,博山一带新娘上轿有被“抢 ”上轿的传说。结婚那天,新郎带车或轿,跟着一帮人到女家去“抢亲”,新娘的兄弟背着她跑,伴娘在后面卫护,新郎则带人追赶,经过一阵象征性地争夺后,才把新娘请上轿子。上轿前,新娘手中多要拿些东西,桓台多是手抱书和如意钩(用红纸包装),博山的新娘多要带些手帕,以备应付闹房的人。起轿后,一路不能落轿,路遇坟墓、庙宇、奇石、怪树等,均以红毡遮蔽。桓台县居民还有沿途送“过街面”的习俗,进村燃火把迎之。轿至男家门前,花轿面对喜神所在的方位落定,有的地方这时故意将大门关闭,让花轿在门前停一会儿,谓之“顿性子”,目的是使新娘的性格绵软,进门后服婆家的管教。待男家大门顶压一对红砖、两双筷子,门框贴“青龙”、“赤虎”,红毡铺地后,时辰已到,鞭炮齐鸣,新娘由两“架女”相扶下轿,新郎在前引导,路过门坎时门坎放一红纸裱糊的马鞍子,新娘由嫁女搀扶迈过,叫“过门”,意在“前进平安”。在新娘向院内走时,一路有人向其身撒五谷杂粮、彩色纸屑,目的在于驱邪。院内摆放香案,夫妻拜天地,抛“长命火烧”。此后,新郎要用一条红绸牵着新娘走向洞房,到洞房门口,新郎给新娘挑去“蒙头红”。桓台居民还惯以把蒙头红抛到房上去,然后才入洞房。新娘进入洞房后,朝喜神所在的方位坐下,谓之“坐时辰”,同时吃随身饭——从娘家带来的面条——在开水锅里一烫即捞出,不能煮熟,此时有人会问“生不生?”,新娘只能说“生”字,取生养孩子之意。傍晚,新郎新娘喝合卺酒,俗称“交心酒”、“合婚酒”,亲朋开始闹房。
与此同时,新郎家须设宴招待女方的送客,并约定新娘归家的日期,后返回(淄川境内送客返回时还要将新娘之套脚红袜带回)。有的地方是次日女家携礼来探望,议回门期,名曰“圆饭”。周村的居民女方来“圆饭”的人所带的礼物必须有一对鲜鱼,男家回礼亦必须有一条鲜鱼,叫“两头子有鱼”。



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