付出太多，没有回报！,人变得不宽容了,心理有问题吗 相处的时候自己付出的太多了，最后他做的太绝情了，心里总是不平...
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不能说心理有问题产生这种情绪是正常的
因为如果长时间一味的付出，却没有任何回报
久而久之，心里会产生落差感
落差感长期存在 就会导致人的情绪和性格发生一些改变
有的人能够开导自己 有的人不能
所以遇上这种事情 最重要的是自己要想通：为什么要付出？付出是为了什么？如果没有回报还要不要继续做？如果做是不是需要摆正自己的心态？如果不做会不会让自己开心一点？....等等
希望你尽快走出困境，加油。
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