老实人就一定是傻子？ 老实人是不是就是傻子
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老实人在一些自以为是的人眼里是傻子,但从本质上来说不是,老实人只是心地比较善良,并不是智商有问题
当然不是 选择成为什么样的人是自己定的 老实和死板不是一回事 死板的看起来比较傻
老实那是大智若愚
不是傻，只是实诚。
“老实人”，忠实，厚道，善良，诚信，本分，无非分之心，无损人之意，循规蹈矩，责任心强，办事认真。
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