认回亲生父母会有很大的压力怎么办
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认与不认都不重要，该怎么样就会怎么样，有些东西是不可逆转的。
怎么也是自己的亲爸亲妈，你压力大但他也希望和自己的亲生孩子好好相处
你还能考虑认不认。我都不知道自己亲生父母是死是活
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