35岁人生真的完了吗? 人生35岁算不算过了半辈子
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答案是:完了！
生生而初，平平毛线，是什么重量，已知青年，而未知青年成就，差不多就是35岁，人生如奴隶，是智慧不断奴隶他，厉害再时无苦无灾，而问题再于觅路勤劳。
也就是人生的开始感悟，那么35岁有什么感吾，没有老婆成或老公算完了，没有当老板开私家飞机算完了，没有种地与挑粪算是完了……等等，都是不快哉。
都35岁了，这也没有那也没有，想想都完了。
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