一个还没出生就没有爸爸的孩子，成长过程中特别安静，本来就自卑，母亲为了赚钱养家糊口，经常在外地打工 在我们哪里一般小孩出生就丢给爷爷奶奶带了，父母出门打工。 而...
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\u2460\u539f\u6ce8Palladas, Greek Anthology, X. 44, \u201cLoeb\u201d, IV, 25\u3002
\u2461\u539f\u6ce8Paradisc Lost, X. 760-2\u3002
\u2462\u539f\u6ce8Thomas Shadwell, The Libertine, Complete Works, ed. M. Summers. III, 27\uff08Jacomo and Don John\uff09\u3002
\u2463\u539f\u6ce8Gulliver''s Travels, Pt I, ch. 6, Oxford, 67\u3002
\u2464\u539f\u6ce8Marek Hlasco, The Eighth Day of the Week, tr. N. Guteman, 13\uff08Agnieszka\uff09\u3002
\u2465\u539f\u6ce8A. Moravia, Noovi racconti romani\uff1a\u201cLasciami perdere,\u201dOpere complete, Bompiani, XI 251-2\uff08Marcella\uff09\u3002
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当然这些都不是重点，是孩子的家庭是单亲家庭，孩子对单缺少父亲角色感到自卑才是重点。
单亲家庭的孩子有两种变化，一种是极端外向一种是极端内向，您的孩子就是后者。
您的明白您的孩子的自卑是孩子对自身感到安全感底，感到您无法保护他。
儿童认为父母的保护和无条件的养育把作为感情“爱”。
那么您就要像您的孩子证明您的“爱”：
证明你是可以保护他的，告诉他及是你没父亲你依旧不会比其他人差，你不比他们差你不什么要自卑。
怎么证明就是您自己的事了，
不要抱着孩子说：“妈妈是爱你的，是可以保护你的·”。
您认为这有用么？是您的弱势让您的孩子自卑啊，您的自己反思自己。
您不是要讨回自己的公道，是要讨回孩子的自尊心。
既然有人在那么多人面伤你孩子让他自卑，你就要在大家面前把脸抢回来。
要让你孩子看到是能保护他的，证明他的自卑是多余的
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