突然，很想有一个男人在我心灵脆弱、受伤的时候，出现在我身边陪着我，帮我面对和解决所有的问题和烦恼? 我只是想找个疼我的男人，在我伤心无助的时候，紧紧的抱着我跟我...
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人都有脆弱的时候，想有个依靠有个家有个避风港也是人之常情。但很多时候，都在故作坚强，害怕受伤。人与人之间多一些认可和信任，交往会更轻松一些。
很想有个男人，在你心灵脆弱受伤的时候，出现在你的身边，陪着你，帮你解决问题，这样子也可以谈恋爱。可以找一个自己喜欢的男人，要男人来帮助你走出这样的误区，希望你能够幸福。
你有这样的想法就是想要恋爱了，恋爱过后就会有一个人这样陪着你，出现在你的身边，帮你解决所有的问题和烦恼。
这种想法是错误的。任何一个人只有靠自己，自己内心强大才是最靠谱的。有句话叫做靠山，山倒，靠人，人跑。只有自己才可以解决面对的一切问题。
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