父亲掌控欲强，干涉我的婚姻自由，不允许我跟我女朋友结婚，行为很过激，我该怎么办？我女朋友比我大三岁 结婚几周年都叫什么!
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自残？您父亲可能需要心理咨询吧？这种做法不成熟啊，简直像小朋友在闹着要吃糖，吃不到就满地打滚。估计您女友心里也不好受。
我感觉你和你女友感情挺稳定的，结婚应该不至于那么着急吧，先把您父亲的情绪和想法捋一捋，毕竟家庭还是要和睦。不是说您错了，而是如果您连平和的家境都提供不了，那作为女生嫁给你也挺风险的。
慢慢来！你可以找一些和你相同经历的电视剧，电影啊和他一起看！让他知道新社会这样很正常！只要幸福！
鱼和熊掌不可两得，这种情况只有你做好父母的思想工作就OK，姐弟年龄是可以结合在一起的只要有爱情其它不重要。
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