嘴笨是情商低吗，该如何提高情商呢？有什么书推荐，如何幽默 怎么才能做到说话很幽默，有什么好的书或者方法！
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我个人认为，情商是天生的。不过跟环境也有很大影响，读多点书吧，学会，沉住气。
《情商其实很重要》《跟尤利西斯学说话》
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