在婆家没有老公的护着嫁在这个家二十多年了他妈妈和那些七大姑八大姨一直到现在都在欺负我 我现在看到我老公家的什么七大姑八大姨那些亲戚就烦，都是爱管闲...
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欺负你二十多年？你都忍过来了，还有什么熬不下去的，马上你也当婆婆了，都快把他们熬进土里了。有能力了就搬出来分开住嘛，自己躲清静总是容易的吧。
老公一个家庭琐事不给你从头维护你也是苦了你，这么多年都过去了再忍忍吧，其实你可以选择去外地找个工作，或者不和公公婆婆住在一起，也就避免很多事情
所以，要保护自己，
唉你也真够难的，过好自己的日子不跟婆婆住不行吗
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