到底是心狠手辣成大事，还是仁者无敌得人心 大丈夫做事是不是该心狠手辣?
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现实中，不是公式化的情绪化的，来定义心狠手辣或者仁者无敌，因为，同一个表现，不同的角度就有不同的解释，比如，心狠手辣可以说成果断坚决。希望有所帮助，请采纳。
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