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看你怎么想，别人怎么说了，每个人把握的尺度不同，也许在你这里是利己， 别人看来就是自私了，问心无愧就好。麻烦采纳，谢谢!
利己就是有利于自己但是那件事不伤害其他人。自私就是，以个人利益为准不管别人只管自己。
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