高三的女儿在寝室和同学相处不太融洽，并且同学喜欢在背后议论她，本人感觉很委屈。 高三了，学不进去怎么办？
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应该教育女儿，想开一点。既然是同学，就应该好好相处。
应该好好想一想，自己有什么错误
或者是太天真，得罪了别人。
背后议论就不要理他们
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