跟女朋友分手了．但心很痛 跟女朋友分手一年多了，心还是很痛，该怎么办？
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我认为用‘行动’试爱更可取！ 原因：如果你坦白了她也许不会同意，这样你就陷入了两难境地 ——如果采取‘进’自己一切都太被动了，很累！ ——反之‘退’自己之前的努力全都白费了，女孩方也不会因和 你分开感到可惜，因为他认为你心不够诚！ 如果不说什么一直默默的关心她，即使她想拒绝你，也是没办法， 相反如果她也爱你，我想她一定能感觉得到，我想在这样的问题上， 哪个女孩子都不傻，不排除她有时会装傻，不要中计！ 这种方法见效也是蛮快的，相信你的真诚会让你们的关系 水到渠成 而且会给她一个好的回忆！ 祝你成功好运!@
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