在爱情里谁先动了感情，谁就是输了，这句话有道理么？ 爱情就像高手过招，谁先动心，谁就会输的很惨是吗？
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有道理，所以输不起的人，永远不要碰感情。
有，但不全部是~如果太看重这句话，就没人敢去爱了，因为怕被伤害！
是啊有道理的，想金海心的《那么骄傲》上唱的一样、
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