当你看到同学之间发生矛盾的时候你该如何解决？ 同学发生矛盾怎么办
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2、发生矛盾时，要保持冷静。保持头脑清醒，有矛盾时不动手，动手使双方都受到伤害；
3、寻求同学或老师的帮助。同学之间发生矛盾，当事人不能解决时，可以寻求同学或老师的帮助。老师和同学是台阶，使发生矛盾的当事人顺利化解矛盾；
4、发生矛盾时，站在对方的立场思考问题。学会站在对方的立场思考问题，有利于自然的化解矛盾；
5、平时对同学友爱，友善，不急不燥，不争不闹，保持一颗宽容，大度的心，有利于避免发生矛盾。
作为旁观者只能尽量的劝和，如果事情闹得比较大可以寻求其他人的帮助。
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