与其誉尧而非桀，不如两忘而化其道是什么意思 与其誉尧而非桀也，不如两忘而化其道，是什么意思
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“相濡以沫”,或许令人感动；而“相忘于江湖”则是另一种境界,选择放弃强烈的感情来换取平稳的生活.这或许需要更大的坦荡、更淡泊的心境吧.
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